Friendship.
When one ends a friendship is it ever really ended?
Does it hang out there, matter in the universe, to be picked up later on?
Does it linger and become its own entity? One can wonder.
Words do not detract themselves. Once said they are afloat........
They rarely stay intact unless written down. They pick up more words and
become whole paragraphs of incorrectness. We forget what we originally
said or thought.
But the receiver does not forget. The receiver has to chew on them and
decide how to react. Does one react inwardly or outwardly?
Does one ignore, or does one give words back....that is the question.
Sometimes it is best to not react right away. To think about the best way to
respond and whether or not to seek closure. To put oneself in the other person's place.
Whys are important. What caused a person to react in such a way. How did they
get to that place. Who are they really? Who am I? What do I want? Where do I want to be?
What knowledge can I glean from this and where will it take me?
We are complex creatures. We have many pieces that make us up. We occupy ourselves in
many different ways. Sometimes it is best to float away from situations that have provided an
escape. Sometimes it is for the best that we let go and see where that leads us.
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